I remember watching “Grease” (1978) as a kid and thinking they looked SO OLD. I know that a lot of them were actually in their 20s or 30s (John Travolta was 24 when the movie came out, Olivia Newton-John was 30), but still. I’m 25 now and I still don’t look like that.
Twenty-five is a weird age. I feel like even my siblings think I should still be 18 and running cross country and picking out colleges again. But here I am, at age 25! A quarter of a century. I can rent a car if I really wanted to. Neat.
In honor of age 25, I thought I’d create a list: 25 Things That Make You Feel Like You Have Your Life Together and Are a Semi-Adult. And then another list: 25 Things That Make You Feel Like You Don’t Have Your Life Together At All.
So here we go! Here are the two lists:
When I first graduated, I pictured most ideal jobs being like this: a 9-to-5 office; my own little cubicle or desk; a hip, cool office with young, creative people; and a daily commute on the train.
I never considered working remotely, and I didn’t know what it entailed. Initially when I’d find out a job was remote, I’d feel crestfallen and imagined I’d feel isolated and lonely within weeks of starting the job. For a lot of people, their workplace is their main source of friendship and community. I mean, you spend at least 40 hours a week there, and you have something in common with these people—a love for teaching, writing, coding, singing, etc. Or maybe you all just bond over how much you hate your job. That can be equally as bonding.
It can also be hard working remotely when you’re young and just starting out your career. A lot of the pros of working from home sometimes don’t apply to you: you don’t have children or parents you’re caretaking for. In other words, you don’t have lot of responsibilities at home that would make working at home ideal.
But I’ve found that working remotely can still have a lot of pros as a 25-year-old: you save money on commuting, you can pal around with your pup and give her walks, you can sleep in, and if you’re an introvert like me, sometimes it’s easier to focus.
A lot of jobs today are remote because 1. Office space is expensive. 2. Employees/freelancers work in different cities, states, countries. 3. A bunch of other reasons I can’t remember.
SO, here is a list of tips on how to make working remotely not suck as much, whether you’re working remotely full time or just a few days a week.
Earlier this year, I thought, hey, I should probably have a logo. I asked my sister Kathleen, who's an illustrator, if she could create one for me and I'd pay her.
Reenactment of convo:
Me: "Hey, sis, could you whip something up real fast that embodies my whole essence, and vibe, and style? Cool, k thx luv ya tonz byeeee!"
Okay, that didn't happen, but Kathleen was super busy so she couldn't do it anyways. And I also feel bad for always relying on Kathleen for anything art-related.
(I'm really painting myself in a bad light here, but it's fine, srsly—Kathleen and I are buds. Right, Kathleen? Right????)
Anyways, I ended up using 99designs.
Freelancing can be lonely, tough, and uncertain, but it has brought me to some beautiful places. I sort of fell into freelancing on accident in 2015, but since then, I’ve embraced it and gone along for the ride.
(Side note: Every time I say I’m a freelancer, I always feel like I’m going to say “I’m a freemason” on accident.
DOUBLE side note: Apparently in the house I grew up in, they used to have Freemason meetings in the basement, whaaaaa? My mom told me that the other day. We were talking about how there used to be a cool bar in the basement, but we knocked it down when we remodeled the basement *tear*. I had some pretty awesome Fisher-Price-esque restaurants down there as a little tot.)
Hey, blog-o-sphere! Welcome to my blog. I always try creating these things and then end up abandoning them after a few months, so here's the hoping this one will actually stick around.
Wow, what an encouraging beginning to a first blog post! I should be a motivational speaker.
Jokes aside (that was a real knee-slapper, wasn't it), I've been thinking of creating a blog for a while, and I thought I'd kick this off with my favorite online editing tools.
When I have a big editing project with a tight deadline, I'm always looking for ways to save time, be more efficient, and automate anything that can be automated. I really should learn how to do macros, but I haven't gotten around to that, so here are my favorite tools for now.